Saturday, December 22, 2012

The Community of Believers: Mary & Elizabeth's Story


Micah 5: 2-5a
Luke 1: 39-55

Let’s tell a story about two women both pregnant, both scared and unsure of their future. They are separated by a long distance, it’s a hard journey. It’s a hard journey whether you are man or a woman, but for a pregnant woman the journey becomes that much harder.

Both have been put into a situation beyond their control and both have been given orders by a higher power. Unsure of what’s going to happen in their futures, they feel that baby inside of them and know that their destiny will always be linked to that little tiny person.

The thoughts that must have ran through their heads; Elizabeth with her husband Zechariah who couldn't speak because he refused to heed the power of the Lord. She would go about her busy days, washing and cleaning, sweeping the floor while her husband sat in silence. Did she talk? Just to hear her own voice, to hear a human voice, since her husband could not participate in the conversation. Or did she sit there quietly while she did her chores, to allow the silence to invade every nook and cranny of that space?  Was it a heavy silence or was it calm and peaceful, almost holy and sacred?

How did Zechariah feel - this old man, this stubborn old man watching the baby continue to grow inside of Elizabeth?  Knowing no matter what he did or thought he was not going to be able to speak to her because of his lack of faith and trust.
Months pass, the baby continues to grow. And all of a sudden, one day, in comes Mary. Now Mary’s story is about a young girl, we know she is probably a teenager; a young teenager. We’re not sure about Joseph. He could have been a young man or he could have been older too. Both have been suggested. But Mary, pregnant and having never had sex – that would baffle people today, let alone people back then.

Did she wonder if it was really God? Was an angel really speaking to HER? Little old Mary from a tiny village. She was no one. She was just a young girl, getting ready for her wedding day when the angel came to her. The confusion and the bafflement she had to have felt. But she managed to answer the angel and say, “yes I will do this”.

Although even as she says yes, at the same time how her head must have swirled with thoughts. How her heart must have raced with fear and pure adrenaline that something so magnificent, so monumental and scary had been thrust upon her without her consent. No one asked Mary if this is what she wanted to do. They told her after the fact.

Pregnancy back then was never as joyful as it is today, because the chance of you surviving birth wasn't always that good, and the chance of your baby surviving was even less so. If you managed to give birth to that baby, more often than not they died in their first year, and if not the first year then the first five when the children are the most vulnerable.

And here is the angel of the Lord, coming to Mary and saying, “You have been blessed.” Maybe I’m a cynic but I think in my head, I would have been thinking, “That’s not a blessing. That’s a burden. You have just given me the task of giving birth to the world’s savior. You have just told me that the world’s fate rests on whether I can give birth to a healthy baby and keep him alive.” But she managed to answer the angel and said she would do it.

However, when the angel disappeared and she had to go tell Joseph that she was pregnant, yet never had sex, and that somehow it was magically the savior, the Messiah they had all been waiting for – I’m sure she was terrified. I’m sure she had doubts about her own sanity. So what did she do? What did Mary decide to do?

She got ready, she hurried to a town in the hill country of Judea and entered Zechariah and Elizabeth’s home. Why did she do that? What was the purpose of going to Elizabeth? Elizabeth even asks that, “Why am I so favored that the mother of my Lord should come to me?” it was simple really. Mary was scared and she was pregnant and probably felt very alone.

Elizabeth was pregnant and might as well have been alone because Zechariah could not speak and their family was not supporting them. So Mary sought out the one person who might know exactly how she felt. Mary needed someone who knew what she was going though. She needed community. It is one of the reasons that we come to church.

We need community. We need people to share our common lot with. We need people who will understand when we say, “I believe in Jesus Christ as my lord and savior. I believe in the Holy Spirit who resides in my heart. I believe in God the Father who sent his only Son so that I could be saved”. We need a place, a holy space where we can go and talk and commiserate with each other. Listen to each other’s burdens and woes, embrace each other and share in the joys that we have in our lives. The blessings we have received. So we might have a moment of hope, to know that as bad as things sometimes get, as scary as they were for both Mary and Elizabeth, there is joy and peace to be found.

When Mary sought out Elizabeth, the two together found faith and joy, they provided comfort for each other. Elizabeth as she turns to Mary’s greeting, suddenly the baby leaps in her womb. I've never been pregnant, but I've watched very pregnant ladies, and when the baby suddenly kicks, you can see it happen. With my sister Allicia, she had twins, and you could see a hand pushing on one side and a foot on the other and you knew it was both of them moving around; perhaps having a little baby fight or something in there.

Those of you that have been pregnant or witnessed such things can imagine the baby leaping in Elizabeth’s womb as she was filled with the Holy Spirit. What is that Scripture we say so often, “Where two or three gather in God’s name, His Spirit resides”. And Elizabeth in a loud voice exclaims, “Blessed are you among women and blessed is the child you bear”, which is an instant source of comfort for Mary who sought out Elizabeth because she was terrified. She needed the reassurance that this was not all in her mind, that this was not a burden, this was a blessing. She needed to know the little baby inside of her would survive and would save the world, and she was going to have a beautiful part in that.

Never in the story does it say it will be easy, but now because she has sought out Elizabeth, she knows she can do it. There are people there rooting for her, the Holy Spirit will be with her, and she is blessed.

“Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her”. That is what Elizabeth tells Mary. “Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfilled his promise to her”. And just with those few words Mary’s terror and fear changed to joy and she began her song.

“My soul glorifies the Lord and my soul rejoices in God my savior. Where he has been mindful of the humble state of his servant”.  Now, now Mary understands all will be well. Because she has sought out one that understands her pain, understands her terror of this not being a blessing, but a burden. Instead, she realizes with Elizabeth’s words of reassurance and comfort that she can do this. That God has made her a blessed person and generations of people will hail her name because she was willing to set aside the shame, the fear, the pain of years of uncertainty as she raises this child. She was willing to put all of this aside to rejoice in the Lord and to accept what had been thrust upon her.

This is what God offers to us as we come to church, and as we prepare ourselves for the coming of our lord and savior. We can put the fears away. We can put the pain away for a moment. The burdens, the responsibilities, the hurts inflicted by people knowingly and unknowingly will all be set aside for a moment. We can put it all away so we may embrace our future, together in community, sharing God’s love, sharing God’s commitment to us. Rejoicing in the promises made that will NOT be broken. But we need that reassurance. We need that time to reflect which is what Advent gives to us.

Tomorrow as we come together and read the story of our Savior’s birth, and sing the songs that magnify our souls and help us to rejoice, we will do so knowing that in the last four weeks we have taken a moment to commiserate with those that came before us. We have taken a moment to understand what it means to be faithful followers, and to know that God will never leave us alone. He will never leave us nor forsake us for he has sent his son to be with us, and we shall call him Emmanuel – God with us.

Amen. 

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